Survey of 36 cities ranks Toronto as 3rd most courteous; Montreal places 21st
New York ranks as the first most-polite city in an international survey.
And Toronto ranks as the third most polite city, while it is the city many Canadians and I love to hate as the following article says.
I have mentioned I hate Toronto for 20 years. More precisely, I have tried to pretend to hate Toronto. In fact, Toronto is one of the most beautiful cities in the world and there is no special reason to hate Toronto except that I lived in Montreal for a while. It is like keeping the identity of myself whose part of history is in Montreal. In fact, I do not hate Toronto or I like Toronto. (Anyway, as the article says, many people seem to hate Toronto.)
This article or the survey focus on “holding the door for others” or “helping picking up the spilled papers”. Though the survey was not made in big cities of Japan, we, Japanese are proud of ranking as the last most-polite city. We will never hold the door for others nor do we apologize when we bump into others.
As one of the undercover testers for the survey says, courtesy is the social lubricant that allows us to get along with each other. Personally, I do not want to live in the city where such lubricant is necessary. And the definition of courtesy must be different in each country, while I have no intention to support Kuala Lumpur, Bucharest and Mumbai…
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Survey of 36 cities ranks Toronto as 3rd most courteous; Montreal places 21st
TORONTO (CP) - It's the city many Canadians love to hate, so detractors may be surprised to learn Toronto ranks as the third most-polite city in an international survey.
Canada's biggest city places behind New York and Zurich in the Reader's Digest survey of 36 cities, released Tuesday. Undercover reporters - an equal number of men and women - recorded more than 2,000 tests of behaviour to come up with the list. Seventy per cent of those tested in Toronto took a moment to do the courteous thing, compared to 80 per cent in New York and 77 per cent in Zurich.
Montreal was the only other Canadian city on the list, and ranked 21st, just below Amsterdam and slightly more polite than Helsinki and Manila. Fifty per cent of Montrealers tested were courteous.
The bottom three cities were Kuala Lumpur, Bucharest and Mumbai.
Toronto-based freelance writer Ian Harvey, one of the undercover testers for the magazine, said people shouldn't be surprised that big cities were the top three most courteous places.
"Courtesy is the social lubricant that allows us - in these densely packed urban areas - to get along with each other," he said. "And without it, we'd be at each other's throats."
He said he's travelled the world and Torontonians have always struck him as being polite: "(They) are the only people in the world that will apologize when somebody else bumps into them."
The courtesy testers walked into public buildings behind people to see if they would hold the door open, they dropped a folder full of papers in a busy location to see if others would help pick them up, and they recorded whether sales assistants said "thank you" after small items were purchased.
Harvey said he was surprised by the age of those who were willing to go out of their way to be polite.
The late winter wind at the Yonge and Sheppard intersection in Toronto made rush hour even more frenetic than usual but when a load of papers was dropped, two teens were there in "nanoseconds to help."
"It didn't matter how they were dressed. Whether they were dressed to go to a private school ... or they were wearing the baggy jeans with the MP3 player ear buds in their ear and baseball cap on sideways, they were right there helping us."
After being thanked for picking up the spilled papers, Harvey asked one young man why he stopped to help.
"'Well it's how my parents raised me. It was what I was taught."
As for the Montreal ranking, Raphael Fischler, an assistant professor in the school of urban planning at McGill University, said it's not that Montrealers are impolite, it's just that they have a more laissez-faire attitude to interactions on the street.
"There's something about Montreal. It's a city of live and let live to a certain extent. (Montrealers) are not control freaks," he said. "There's not necessarily a great respect for established norms, such as holding the door open. Just look at our drivers, they're terrible."
"Street life is quite intense in Montreal and we can have all these summer festivals, in part thanks to that. It's kind of an enjoyment of life"
"In Montreal we say 'tu' instead of 'vous,' which is very informal," he said from his office in Montreal. "It's a little bit of the other side of the coin from not holding the door."
The magazine recounts how a well-dressed man in his 50s failed to hold the door in Montreal's Central Train Station. When asked why, he offered only that he "just held a door for someone downstairs" before continuing on his way.
The findings suggested that Asia was the region that most consistently lacked courtesy.
In Mumbai, where only 32 per cent of those tested were courteous, a worker in a government-run supermarket told researchers: "In Mumbai, they'll step over a person who has fallen in the street."
But rudeness certainly wasn't confined to Asia.
In Moscow, a woman failed to hold the door. When asked for an explanation. she said: "I'm not a doorman. It's not my job to hold doors. If someone gets hurt, they should be quicker on their feet."
The article also noted that Zurich, a wealthy city which placed second on the list of most courteous, puts customer service first.
"Everyone I deal with is served attentively - even those who are rude to me," said one salesperson.
Meanwhile, in the city that was ranked most courteous, it could be that tragedy has brought out the best in people.
"After 9-11 New Yorkers are more caring. They understand the shortness of life," the city's former mayor Ed Koch, told the magazine.
